{"id":48858,"date":"2025-05-01T04:05:41","date_gmt":"2025-05-01T09:05:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/?p=48858"},"modified":"2025-05-01T04:15:37","modified_gmt":"2025-05-01T09:15:37","slug":"a-baseball-parable","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/?p=48858","title":{"rendered":"A Baseball Parable"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In junior high, we had an &#8220;advisory&#8221; period for about a half hour in the middle of the day. Basically, do what ever you want, just don&#8217;t bug the teacher.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My advisory classroom had piles of old textbooks in the back. One was a literary collection for junior high students, and I&#8217;d read some of the stories. I still remember one story to this day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span class=\"ed-note\">[I haven&#8217;t been able to find the name of the story or the author]<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The story takes place in a minor league baseball game. An older man is playing second base. The runner on first recognizes him &#8211; the second baseman was disgraced and kicked out of the major leagues for a gambling scandal. The runner is going to teach the second baseman a lesson, so he decides he is going to slide into second base and spike the second baseman&#8217;s shins.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/ChatGPT-Image-Apr-30-2025-02_34_22-PM.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1536\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"48861\" src=\"https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/ChatGPT-Image-Apr-30-2025-02_34_22-PM.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-48861\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/ChatGPT-Image-Apr-30-2025-02_34_22-PM.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/ChatGPT-Image-Apr-30-2025-02_34_22-PM-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/ChatGPT-Image-Apr-30-2025-02_34_22-PM-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/ChatGPT-Image-Apr-30-2025-02_34_22-PM-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/ChatGPT-Image-Apr-30-2025-02_34_22-PM-1200x800.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1536px) 100vw, 1536px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text is-stacked-on-mobile\" style=\"grid-template-columns:39% auto\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"896\" height=\"1280\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/x7thKqiVlMXnH9ySsRGf-1-nmmyy.jpg?fit=580%2C828&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-48863 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/x7thKqiVlMXnH9ySsRGf-1-nmmyy.jpg 896w, https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/x7thKqiVlMXnH9ySsRGf-1-nmmyy-210x300.jpg 210w, https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/x7thKqiVlMXnH9ySsRGf-1-nmmyy-717x1024.jpg 717w, https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/x7thKqiVlMXnH9ySsRGf-1-nmmyy-768x1097.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 896px) 100vw, 896px\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br>On the next hit, the runner carries out this plan. After taking a moment to recover, the second baseman stands and quietly rolls down his sock to attend to his injury.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The runner sees that the second baseman&#8217;s leg is covered in scares, some old, some new. Runners have been intentionally sliding into him for years. From this, the runner has a quite revelation, realizing that this man pays for his sins over and over, but each time he gets up, dusts himself off, and in quiet stoic dignity, keeps on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A Reflection by Elder G<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This narrative echoes the archetype of the <strong>wounded healer<\/strong> \u2014 a figure who, through enduring pain, becomes a source of healing and understanding for others. In this context, the second baseman, bearing the physical and emotional scars of his past, embodies this archetype.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The runner&#8217;s transformation\u2014from seeking retribution to feeling empathy\u2014illustrates the profound impact of recognizing shared humanity. It&#8217;s a testament to the idea that understanding another&#8217;s suffering can lead to personal growth and a break in the cycle of vengeance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At the start, the runner is fueled by <strong>self-righteousness<\/strong>. He believes he\u2019s enacting justice\u2014punishing a man who has sinned and escaped.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But this isn&#8217;t justice. It&#8217;s <strong>vengeance<\/strong>, masked in athletic ritual. The cleats, the slide\u2014they&#8217;re a socially acceptable form of retaliation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And then\u2014<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He sees the scars.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is the mythic moment of revelation. He doesn\u2019t just see a leg. He sees a history of pain. The story doesn\u2019t need a sermon. The scars speak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s the kind of shift that Joseph Campbell would describe as a \u201creturn to the heart.\u201d The runner steps back from the cycle of inherited judgment and chooses compassion over condemnation. He thought he would expose the second baseman\u2019s shame. Instead, he\u2019s exposed to the second baseman\u2019s humanity.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Fast Forward 50 Years<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let&#8217;s picture our base runner, many years later. After playing catch with his grandson, he tells him a story&#8230;..<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You wanna hear about the day I learned what a man really is?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text has-media-on-the-right is-stacked-on-mobile\"><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I was about your age when I first heard his name\u2014Charlie Monroe. Second baseman. Used to play in the majors, but they said he cheated. Don\u2019t remember the details\u2014something about a rigged play or a bet gone bad. Whatever it was, they threw him out. Whole town talked about him like he was dirt.<\/p>\n<\/div><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1536\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/ChatGPT-Image-Apr-30-2025-02_29_21-PM.jpg?fit=580%2C870&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-48868 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/ChatGPT-Image-Apr-30-2025-02_29_21-PM.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/ChatGPT-Image-Apr-30-2025-02_29_21-PM-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/ChatGPT-Image-Apr-30-2025-02_29_21-PM-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/ChatGPT-Image-Apr-30-2025-02_29_21-PM-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Years later, I\u2019m playin\u2019 minor league ball, tryin\u2019 to make it to the Show. And wouldn\u2019t you know it, that same Charlie Monroe\u2019s on the other team. Old now, late forties maybe, still playin\u2019 second base. Real quiet fella. Didn\u2019t look at nobody.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I told myself I was gonna teach him a lesson. He\u2019d been disgraced, but he was still playin\u2019? Still smilin\u2019 and collectin\u2019 a paycheck? I didn\u2019t like that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That pitch came. Batter hit a chopper to short, and I ran. Didn\u2019t hesitate. Slid like a rocket. Spikes high. Caught him clean on the leg. He went down hard.<br>He didn\u2019t yell. Just sat up real slow. Pulled down his sock to check the damage. And that\u2019s when I saw it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Scars.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not just one. Not two.<br>A whole mess of &#8217;em. Like vines runnin\u2019 up his leg.<br>That\u2019s when it hit me.<br>I wasn\u2019t teachin\u2019 him nothin\u2019 new. I was just one more person throwin\u2019 pain on a pile he\u2019d been carryin\u2019 for years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He didn\u2019t look at me with hate. Didn\u2019t curse.<br>He just pulled his sock back up, nodded at me once, and limped back to his position.<br>I didn\u2019t say sorry that day.<br>Didn&#8217;t know how.<br>But I never slid like that again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-2 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/CXnbnk2h5RzCzukv5zq5-1-ucyb3.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1408\" height=\"768\" data-id=\"48870\" src=\"https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/CXnbnk2h5RzCzukv5zq5-1-ucyb3.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-48870\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/CXnbnk2h5RzCzukv5zq5-1-ucyb3.jpg 1408w, https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/CXnbnk2h5RzCzukv5zq5-1-ucyb3-300x164.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/CXnbnk2h5RzCzukv5zq5-1-ucyb3-1024x559.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/CXnbnk2h5RzCzukv5zq5-1-ucyb3-768x419.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/CXnbnk2h5RzCzukv5zq5-1-ucyb3-1200x655.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1408px) 100vw, 1408px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And I started watchin&#8217; people different after that.<br>You see someone doin\u2019 somethin\u2019 wrong, yeah\u2014you hold &#8217;em accountable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But if you see someone carryin\u2019 scars\u2026 you pause.<br>Might be they already learned the lesson you\u2019re tryin\u2019 to teach.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Charlie Monroe never made it back to the majors. But he showed me more about what it means to stand your ground\u2014with grace\u2014than anyone ever did in the big leagues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So when you step on that field, remember this:<br>You don\u2019t know what someone\u2019s carryin\u2019. But you do get to choose what you add to the weight.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What Changes With the Base Runner?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The runner\u2019s conversion is:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text has-media-on-the-right is-stacked-on-mobile\"><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Sudden<\/strong>\u2014as epiphanies often are<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Silent<\/strong>\u2014there\u2019s no big apology, no courtroom confession<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Embodied<\/strong>\u2014he doesn\u2019t change because he\u2019s told to, but because he <em>feels<\/em> it, viscerally, through the scared flesh<\/p>\n<\/div><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/rtO6ILXTawvFbDeoMzJD-0-kb8w8.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-48872 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/rtO6ILXTawvFbDeoMzJD-0-kb8w8.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/rtO6ILXTawvFbDeoMzJD-0-kb8w8-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s the kind of shift that Joseph Campbell would describe as a <em>\u201creturn to the heart.\u201d<\/em> The runner steps back from the cycle of inherited judgment and chooses <strong>compassion over condemnation<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He thought he would expose the second baseman\u2019s shame.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Instead, he\u2019s exposed to the second baseman\u2019s humanity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The runner breaks the echo<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He sees the cost of cruelty repeated. And he stops. He doesn\u2019t erase the past, but he <strong>refuses to amplify it.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-3 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/22hoYrCIj67IjYBfONFj-0-21v3v.jpg\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" data-id=\"48874\" src=\"https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/22hoYrCIj67IjYBfONFj-0-21v3v.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-48874\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/22hoYrCIj67IjYBfONFj-0-21v3v.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/22hoYrCIj67IjYBfONFj-0-21v3v-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.wlbott.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/22hoYrCIj67IjYBfONFj-0-21v3v-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In junior high, we had an &#8220;advisory&#8221; period for about a half hour in the middle of the day. Basically, do what ever you want, just don&#8217;t bug the teacher. My advisory classroom had piles of old textbooks in the back. 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